Amanda Seales Responded To Multiple Publications Accusing Her Of Being Unlikable: “Okay, Honestly, I Had Enough”
Amanda Seales has received a lot of backlash lately, and her response reminds me that we have a long way to go if our society seeks an equitable future for everyone.
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For the newly initiated, you might know Amanda from her unforgettable portrayal as Tiffany DuBois in HBO’s Insecure.
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Or perhaps you know Amanda for her comedy, music, podcasts, books, or randomly popping up on your internet timelines with an educated hot take. Personally, I followed Amanda’s career since she was Dionne on Nickelodeon’s My Brother and Me in 1994.
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The bottom line is Amanda is everywhere, and she’s gone viral time after time for holding institutions and people who abuse their power accountable on various platforms. More specifically, she’s a prominent voice for uplifting Black people and women.
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According to her website, Amanda is a “comedian, multi-hyphenate, and social justice advocate” who uses her platform and celebrity status to create “safe spaces with her witty, insightful content.”
Unsurprisingly, Amanda’s challenging rhetoric invites backlash and haters. However, it’s usually folks who are so diametrically opposed to her values and identity that she brushes it off easily until now.
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When publications with predominantly Black audiences, like The Grio, Essence, and The Root, published strongly opinionated pieces targeting her character, Amanda emotionally responded on social media.
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Although Amanda has called out much bigger world issues and centuries-long oppression on her platform, it was calling out her exclusion from Black awards shows that was apparently the last straw for some folks.
On March 17, Amanda shared an Instagram post explaining her frustrations with not being included at specific events, such as the NAACP Image Awards, BET Awards, and Essence Women in Hollywood.
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“If it wasn’t for y’all, I would really think that I ain’t doing shit. Because the industry I’m in does not recognize me,” Amanda explained. “To be clear, I’m speaking about the Black spaces in the industry I’m in — which is largely in part why I realized I need to shift out of this industry — I don’t get invited to Essence Women in Hollywood. I’ve NEVER been invited to the NAACP Image Awards. I’ve been nominated for an Image award, never been invited.”
Amanda continued that she even hosted the BET Award in 2020 from her home, but she was still not invited to the following awards shows on the network. “So I just want to thank y’all for always reminding me that I really am valuable because the game and the industry that I’ve been in has never let me know.”
On April 3, Amanda shared an Instagram video responding to the onslaught of critiques, saying, “Okay, honestly, I had enough. What the fuck is wrong with y’all?” Amanda asked. “Three pieces! Three! From people I have never met. From three publications that are supposed to be about uplifting Black people, which is all I have dedicated my life to doing.”
‘What hubris do I have?” she asked.
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“You people literally cannot stand that someone has studied and is speaking on what they studied — that someone has read and is speaking on what they read,” she said. “You can’t stand that someone loves us. That someone loves us so much, that their passion is so exemplary, and it is exuding through the phone that it touches people who have literally never felt love that much and they don’t know how to process it. That’s what you’re feeling.”
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“I want to send all the love to everyone who has shown me love. But you people who are continuing to attempt to break me down — you will not break me. You cannot break me. I am loved. I am anointed. I am touched. I am working through the blood of our ancestors. You will not break me.”
“It is so sad that you are so broken that this is the effort that you would take to try and get some clout,” she continued.
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“Big up to all my strong Black women who are supporting other strong Black women and every other person supporting us. We love you. The rest of y’all can suck a—,” she said before the video ended early.
I’m honestly perplexed that Amanda has become characterized as a villain or labeled difficult for being outspoken, especially when many of these same circles who attempt to challenge her welcome celebrities who have committed actual crimes, used actual hate speech, or promoted violence. I believe we should use our resources for more than calling out a Black woman simply for the way we interpret her confidence and activism.
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How we treat Angel Reese, Megan Thee Stallion, Mo’Nique, Simone Biles, Angelica Ross, Serena Williams, and other Black women for simply speaking up (and not committing any actual injustice) is dehumanization disguised as accountability.
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And I say this with my full chest.
We can’t pretend like there’s nothing for a woman of color to be upset about in 2024. If you find yourself enraged that someone is calling for equity, you might be the problem.
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To add insult to inequality, Amanda even went back to Instagram to hold herself accountable for not always getting it right after the articles against her were released. Once again, I have to watch a Black woman apologize or regret her emotions to the public because somebody didn’t like the way her sentences were put together.
Amanda followed up on Instagram again with another response to articles: “I’m furious that we have allowed ourselves to be this corrupted. I am furious that we have allowed ourselves to be dismayed in such a way that we can’t identify who our allies are.”
While Amanda is dismayed that some can’t identify their allies, many celebrities and fans have clarified that they’re here to support her. Here’s what they’re saying:
